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But how do we define "soul"? In our book, as in our consulting
practice, we use a specialized definition of soul that most people,
no matter what their unique spiritual beliefs, can relate to. For
career purposes your soul is the inner you -- the center of your
being. It's that part of you that knows your deepest needs and aspirations
and that's the source of your energy. If you leave your soul at
home and have no time for it later, your job won't be very fulfilling.
Bringing your soul to work requires specifying and meeting your
own, not someone else's, expectations. You have to define your own,
independent personal criteria for success before you can decide
what career choices will best help you meet them. Some of the most
important criteria you need to define are your life values
Difficult choices
Making a long list of values is usually the easy part because most
of us want everything with no contradictions. For instance, I want
to live in a small, low-pressure town and have all the status and
money of a job that may only be available in a large city. However,
if I face the unpleasant reality that there are contradictions and
I can't have everything, I'll discover I have priorities and want
some things more than others. Accepting someone else's - organization's,
peers' or teacher's - value priorities will rob me of many things
I want most and substitute things I don't want nearly as much.
The following exercise will help you establish your unique personal
value priorities. It asks you to rank 20 typical life values by
dropping them one at a time. This will not be an easy task but it's
an important one. The process of establishing clear priorities may
force you to make some conscious tradeoffs you've been avoiding,
particularly when you compare what your top priorities are with
the values you are actually spending most of your time pursuing
today.
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